In Relief Society on Sunday(I can't believe I'm in Relief Society now) we talked about pride and being humble. I love my singles ward and how open people are, their comments always strengthen my testimony and add to the lesson. It's also pretty special to be in a ward where everyone is either in the same boat, has gone through what you're going through or wants to be your friend. Plus, basically all of us live in the same apartment complex. An apartment a few days ago had a jaor fiasco. One roommate went to the ER for stress-induced stomach ulcers, the other hurt her knee badly, it was just crazy! Sammy went to Walmart to get them some groceries and a card and flowers. They were so gracious and kind about it. The next day they sent us Thank you notes and told us we were answers to their prayers. Even though it was something really small, just being there and offering help or be willing to listen makes a huge difference when you're living alone. The ward has really risen up to become people's families on numerous occassions already.
I have really learned not to judge people as I have gotten close with people I thought I had known. Even if my judgements aren't bad, they hardly ever turn out realistic. The people have gone through so much more than I expected or would think, they have the same fears I do, they have unique talents I never would have guessed, etc. College is really amazing in that way, it's like this little community of young people trying to find themselves and figure out the rest of their lives. It's exciting and scary and sometimes annoying, I admit. Last night I was just bored of some of the trite conversations and silly drama (which is inevitable wherever you go) and luckily I had two amazing friends I could talk about it with. I feel like I've known both of them way longer than a little over a month. We have had so many deep discussions on life and the gospel, and I'm just so grateful for their insight, advice, understanding and examples.
Also, Ari came up on Saturday for a sleepover which was a blast. I missed her, and was so happy to spend some time with her and show her a little of what my life is like now. We made chocolate chip cookies (did you know they sell choc chip cookie dough mix?? It's good too, and SO easy), did facials, watched SYTYCD, went to Women's Conference where my ward served us Cafe Rio, and went to Walmart for some cough medicine for Ari (they wanted her ID for me to buy it, it was so weird, she's 13!!) My dad came up yesterday with Free and Tizzy and we drove the Alpine Loop and walked around Sundance for a little. The trees were positively glowing and the mountains were divine. Fall is most definitely my favorite season-by FAR. I love everything about it-the warm crispness, the changing leaves, anticipation of the holidays, the flavors, the coziness. And the aspen trees in the loop were magicial, seriously, go drive it! Maybe in the morning-Sunday afternoon was a little crowded ;)
So yes, I'm loving collge. I love my new friends and I love learning new things. Ballet has been an absolute dream. I am working so hard, learning ballet at a deep, kinesthetic and working way, and we always have live music. I have learned more about life in my dance classes than I have in any of my Honors or Biology courses. Even though I don't know if I'll get my Bachelors or Masters in ballet, it's without a doubt the right major for me right now.
Here's to Freshman year, autumn, amazing friends, growing testimony and chocolate chip cookies!
Our carpet was cleaned last week
Sometimes these mountains just look extra splendid
My homegirl Emmy. Now one of my best friends. We went to The Scorch Trials, then left early because we didn't like it
I did Kenzie's hair for the Emerald Ball-basically an excuse for college students to wear old high school dresses, it was fun though!
I was completely out of food so I kind of went crazy and bought $70 worth of groceries on Saturday.
No one believed she was thirteen.
Our awesome cookies. This weekend was so not healthy. And apparently neither is today because I just ate the rest of the dough and left over Panda Express.
I have really learned not to judge people as I have gotten close with people I thought I had known. Even if my judgements aren't bad, they hardly ever turn out realistic. The people have gone through so much more than I expected or would think, they have the same fears I do, they have unique talents I never would have guessed, etc. College is really amazing in that way, it's like this little community of young people trying to find themselves and figure out the rest of their lives. It's exciting and scary and sometimes annoying, I admit. Last night I was just bored of some of the trite conversations and silly drama (which is inevitable wherever you go) and luckily I had two amazing friends I could talk about it with. I feel like I've known both of them way longer than a little over a month. We have had so many deep discussions on life and the gospel, and I'm just so grateful for their insight, advice, understanding and examples.
Also, Ari came up on Saturday for a sleepover which was a blast. I missed her, and was so happy to spend some time with her and show her a little of what my life is like now. We made chocolate chip cookies (did you know they sell choc chip cookie dough mix?? It's good too, and SO easy), did facials, watched SYTYCD, went to Women's Conference where my ward served us Cafe Rio, and went to Walmart for some cough medicine for Ari (they wanted her ID for me to buy it, it was so weird, she's 13!!) My dad came up yesterday with Free and Tizzy and we drove the Alpine Loop and walked around Sundance for a little. The trees were positively glowing and the mountains were divine. Fall is most definitely my favorite season-by FAR. I love everything about it-the warm crispness, the changing leaves, anticipation of the holidays, the flavors, the coziness. And the aspen trees in the loop were magicial, seriously, go drive it! Maybe in the morning-Sunday afternoon was a little crowded ;)
So yes, I'm loving collge. I love my new friends and I love learning new things. Ballet has been an absolute dream. I am working so hard, learning ballet at a deep, kinesthetic and working way, and we always have live music. I have learned more about life in my dance classes than I have in any of my Honors or Biology courses. Even though I don't know if I'll get my Bachelors or Masters in ballet, it's without a doubt the right major for me right now.
Here's to Freshman year, autumn, amazing friends, growing testimony and chocolate chip cookies!
Cute little Ari. We forgot it was fast Sunday! oops
These pancakes were mmmmmmm
And that's a wrap for this weekend. Stay tuned for next time where I tell you how my biology test goes and if my roommate's engaged. (haha jk she's only been out with him twice-but I have still picked out my bridesmaid dress)
It all sounds so thrilling. It's everything I hoped for you! Tha ks for keeping us all in the loop.
ReplyDeleteWhat a fun weekend. I love hearing about all of your adventures. I liked your insight on judging others. Even when we've known people forever, we still don't know the challenges and trials they face on a daily basis. Sometimes it is hard to always give people the benefit of the doubt. However, I love what Ryan has taught me over the years. He says something like, "People don't wake up in the morning and try to to be horrible. For the most part, people are trying their best." I try to always remember that when I'm dealing with a tough situation, or a person I just don't like. When I recognize we're all trying our best, it helps me to be more patient, Christlike, and forgiving. All of us have different personalities. Sometimes we click, other times.... not so much. Although the important thing is to always try and show love and respect. Sometimes, that is easier said than done, and we have to try a little harder to be a little better. I'm grateful when people are patient with me and try to overlook all my imperfections. Hopefully I can do the same for them. Anyway.... I'm glad you are enjoying your ward and your time at school. Hopefully we'll get to hear more about it over Conference at grandmas. Love ya
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